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不愛 也是愛我 Pinyin Lyrics & Learn Chinese

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【Lyrics】: R-chord, Tan Yu-Tin
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【Composer】: Skot Suyama
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At 3:09 in the morning, I listen to loneliness singing
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The drizzle outside the window falls so freezing cold
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I brewed two cups of hot cocoa, but I'm drinking alone
shuì
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jīn
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I can't fall asleep, preparing for another sleepless night
xiǎng
men
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jīng
me
fēng
kuáng
yòng
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zhù
I think of how we used to love, so wildly and intensely
bān
lái
de
fáng
zi
hǎo
tiān
dōu
méi
chū
mén
You moved into my shabby room and didn't step out for days
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zěn
me
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You learned to do the laundry, and learned how to cook
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You humored my temper, letting me be the big man
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fáng
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Yet I threw a glass in anger, and smashed the bedroom door
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diàn
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zhè
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Left you crying for days, ignoring my calls, just walking away
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jiù
gāi
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xiǎng
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Goodbye, if love is wrong we should part (I don't want to go)
bié
zài
bào
qiàn
nán
guò
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yào
zěn
me
shuō
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No more of your apologies, my sorrow (How do I say it)
xiāng
chǔ
xiāng
ài
nán
duō
men
dōu
shì
guò
shì
wáng
shì
hòu
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Living together is harder than loving, we've tried, you're the king and I'm not the queen (NO)
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zhǒng
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Goodbye, letting me go is also a way of loving me
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huà
tiān
é
chuán
shuō
yùn
chuán
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Rowing the swan boats in Bitan, you said you felt seasick
yáng
míng
shān
kàn
jǐng
shuō
zhēn
měi
ne
Watching the night view on Yangmingshan, you whispered 'how beautiful'
kàn
yuè
tiān
de
yǎn
chàng
huì
gǎn
dòng
de
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Watching Mayday's concert together, you cried with emotion
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de
zi
jiù
xiàng
zuó
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The days we spent together, like yesterday, still vivid before my eyes
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dào
gāi
zěn
me
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róng
de
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liáng
tiān
zhēn
I don't know how to describe your kindness and innocence
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dào
gāi
zěn
me
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néng
wǎn
huí
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And I don't know what to do to win you back
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hǎo
zhàn
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jìng
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qián
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I can only stand before the mirror, cursing myself 'motherfucker'
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qiāng
ràng
qiāng
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Just give me a gun, let me end myself with a single shot
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duō
shǎo
shí
jiān
cái
néng
gòu
zhǎo
huí
cóng
qián
de
kuài
How much time will it take to find our past happiness again
yào
duō
shǎo
hòu
huǐ
cái
néng
gòu
shǒu
zài
qiān
zhù
How much regret is needed to hold your hand once more
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zhù
shǒu
men
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de
měi
zhāng
zhào
piàn
I look at every single photo we took on my phone
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xùn
dōu
shì
me
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tián
me
de
shēn
Every message was so sweet and so profound
zhěn
tou
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de
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I embrace the pillow where your scent still lingers
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de
diàn
yǐng
piào
gēn
dōu
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I still keep all the movie ticket stubs we saved
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wàng
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de
xīn
zhōng
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wàng
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hèn
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yàn
I only hope that in your heart you won't forget me, won't hate me, won't despise me
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Then all of this, I will willingly accept
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Goodbye, if love is wrong we should part (I don't want to go)
bié
zài
bào
qiàn
nán
guò
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yào
zěn
me
shuō
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No more of your apologies, my sorrow (How do I say it)
xiāng
chǔ
xiāng
ài
nán
duō
men
dōu
shì
guò
shì
wáng
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hòu
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Living together is harder than loving, we've tried, you're the king and I'm not the queen (NO)
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ài
shì
zhǒng
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Goodbye, letting me go is also a way of loving me
zài
gěi
huì
zài
huì
Give another chance, one more chance
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gěi
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huì
duì
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shuō
shēng
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qiàn
Give you (me) another chance to say sorry to me (you)
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Give another chance, one more chance
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shuō
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Give you (me) another chance to say goodbye to me (you)
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Give another chance, one more chance
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Give you (me) another chance to say sorry to me (you)
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Give another chance, one more chance
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Give you (me) another chance to say goodbye to me (you)
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I say goodbye, if love is wrong we should part (I don't want to go)
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No more of your apologies, my sorrow (Don't say goodbye)
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Living together is harder than loving, we've tried, you're the king and I'm not the queen
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(Don't go) Goodbye, just let this be your final (No) way of loving me

Key HSK Vocabulary

Word Pinyin Meaning HSK Action
挽回 wǎn huí retrieve, redeem HSK 7
凌晨 líng chén before dawn, in the small hours HSK 7
失眠 shī mián sleepless, lose sleep HSK 7
甜蜜 tián mì sweet, happy HSK 7
搜集 sōu jí collect, gather HSK 7
用力 yòng lì exert oneself, put forth one's strength HSK 7
寂寞 jì mò lonely, lonesome HSK 7
枕头 zhěn tou pillow HSK 7
香味 xiāng wèi scent, odour HSK 7
天鹅 tiān é a swan HSK 7
枪毙 qiāng bì execute by shooting, reject HSK 7
学会 xué huì society, institute HSK 6
当作 dàng zuò to treat as, to regard as HSK 6
疯狂 fēng kuáng crazy, insane HSK 5
如此 rú cǐ so, such HSK 5
讨厌 tǎo yàn disagreeable, disgusting HSK 5
后悔 hòu huǐ regret, remorse HSK 5
善良 shàn liáng kind-hearted, good and honest HSK 4
形容 xíng róng appearance, countenance HSK 4
天真 tiān zhēn naive, innocent HSK 4

Grammar Notes

📌 把 (bǎ) Construction
Used to describe how a specific object is disposed of, manipulated, or affected by an action. The structure is: Subject + 把 + Object + Verb + Complement/Result. In the lyrics, this is seen in '把房间的门打破了' (broke the room's door).

他把我的手机摔坏了。

Tā bǎ wǒ de shǒujī shuāi huài le.

He dropped and broke my phone.

📌 Verb + 不 + Complement (Potential Complement)
Used to indicate that an action cannot achieve its expected result or potential due to certain limitations. In the lyrics, '睡不著' (unable to fall asleep) and '记不住' (unable to remember) are common examples of this pattern.

字太小了,我看不清。

Zì tài xiǎo le, wǒ kàn bù qīng.

The characters are too small; I can't see them clearly.

📌 要...才... (yào... cái...)
This structure expresses a necessary condition. '要' introduces the requirement (e.g., time, effort, or resources), and '才' introduces the resulting action that can only happen once that condition is met.

我们要努力工作才买得起房子。

Wǒmen yào nǔlì gōngzuò cái mǎi de qǐ fángzi.

We must work hard to be able to afford a house.

📌 怎么 + Verb (zěnme + Verb)
Used to inquire about or describe the method or manner of performing a specific action. In the lyrics, it appears in '怎么做菜' (how to cook) and '怎么形容' (how to describe).

我不知道这首歌怎么唱。

Wǒ bù zhīdào zhè shǒu gē zěnme chàng.

I don't know how to sing this song.

Sometimes, the most agonizing proof of love isn’t holding on—it’s the brutal mercy of letting go. This bittersweet paradox lies at the dark, poetic heart of “不愛 也是愛我” (All Endings Are Beginnings), a track that perfectly captures the messy, exhausting reality of a failing relationship. In this haunting duet, Taiwanese singer-songwriter R-Chord brings his signature rock-infused Mandopop style and candid, unfiltered lyrics to the table, clashing beautifully with the raw energy of Malaysian vocal powerhouse Jess Lee. Famous for her soaring high notes and her legendary victory on the seventh season of Million Star, Lee’s emotional delivery elevates R-Chord’s gritty, spoken-word style into a breathtaking storm of heartbreak.

Unpacking the lyrics of this dramatic ballad offers a deeply rewarding way to learn Chinese. Instead of memorizing dry, academic grammar, you will absorb raw, conversational Mandarin and master vocabulary that expresses the complex nuances of love, pain, and closure. Let's break down the language behind the music and discover how endings can pave the way for brand-new beginnings.

Quick Info

Song Name 不愛 也是愛我 (All Endings Are Beginnings)
Artist 謝和弦 R-Chord feat. 李佳薇 Jess Lee
Original Singer Original
Release Year 2015
Duration 04:15

The Story Behind the Song

How do we love someone by leaving them? This tragic paradox lies at the heart of "不愛 也是愛我," a standout track from R-Chord’s 2015 album Growing Up. The song serves as a sonic autopsy of a fading romance, where letting go becomes the final, most devastating act of devotion.

The emotional weight of this sacrifice is mirrored in its striking sonic architecture. R-Chord’s gritty, conversational rap-vocals ground the listener in the cold, daily friction of a crumbling relationship, while Jess Lee’s legendary, soaring high notes pierce the sky like a desperate cry from a heart refusing to quiet down. This brilliant vocal tug-of-war transforms a private tragedy into a grand, cathartic anthem, proving that sometimes, the ultimate expression of love is a painful departure.

✨ Lyrical Highlights

你不愛我 也是一種愛我 至少你 坦白了 沒騙我
nǐ bù ài wǒ yě shì yī zhǒng ài wǒ zhì shǎo nǐ tǎn bái le méi piàn wǒ
Your lack of love for me is also a form of love; at least you were honest and didn't lie to me.

This line beautifully reframes the pain of rejection as a paradoxical act of ultimate kindness. By prioritizing painful honesty over a deceptive relationship, the partner shows a final, respect-based form of love. It perfectly captures the bittersweet maturity of accepting heartbreak to preserve the integrity of their past connection.

殘忍的溫柔 也是一種溫柔 讓我能 徹底地 放手
cán rěn de wēn róu yě shì yī zhǒng wēn róu ràng wǒ néng chè dǐ de fàng shǒu
Cruel tenderness is still a kind of tenderness, allowing me to completely let go.

This line employs the oxymoron of "cruel tenderness" to highlight the sharp but necessary pain of a clean break. The cruelty of a decisive separation is actually tender because it prevents prolonged agony and provides definitive closure. It connects to the theme by showing that true liberation and moving on often require enduring a painful but honest truth.